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Monday, February 13, 2006

The Difference between Girls and Women...Which One are You?

Girls vs. Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it--using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e. don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his manhood.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!!

Think About it!!!! BE BLESSED.

This was forwarded to me from a very special individual. I felt it my duty to send this out to all Divas. Read this and take the self test. Which category are you in at this stage in your life? If you find yourself with Girlish tendencies, then it's time to GROW UP!! If you find yourself reflecting the DIVA qualities that ALL WOMEN have (sometimes we just need to bring them back to the surface) then KEEP IT UP!!!!!!!

Have A Blessed Day and stay tuned for more Diva Savvy!!!!!!!

President

1 Comments:

  • At April 19, 2006 12:42 AM, Blogger enter my head said…

    welcome to womanhood! deep. i didn't feel like i was a woman until i was 22 years old. i had a son when i was 16 but that didn't do it, i turned 18 years old but that didn't do it. then i turned 21 still nothing. the day i got started on my first job march 2002... nope didn't hit yet. moved into my 1st apartment may of 2002 still no grand conclusion. it was the day i was in my room with my boyfriend (we're now great friends) and we were "making love" that i realized "oh my GOD i'm a woman". i don't know what it was, if it was him, or if it was me, honestly... it could've been the crown royal, i don't know, but it hit me. and since then i've been just growing. what an honor it is to be a woman. and a privilege to be a lady.

     

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